Parent Resource Guide: Understanding and Addressing Youth Online Radicalization
Caveat – Over the past several months, parents, caregivers, educators, and counsellors have reached out to us seeking information on the issue of online radicalization among youth and teens. This resource guide compiles all our articles on the topic in one place, providing a clearer understanding of this growing concern and emphasizing the importance of open discussions with young people and what we can do to help combat it. Knowledge and the understanding and application of that knowledge is power! One growing concern for parents, caregivers, educators, and family counsellors is the increasing use of digital platforms to influence and radicalize youth. This guide provides key insights into two major areas of concern that we have identified : #1 – The Role of Technology in Youth Radicalization #2 – The Manosphere and Its online Influence on Teen Boys (and Its Harmful Effects on Teen Girls) By understanding these issues, parents, caregivers, educators, and counsellors can take proactive steps to educate and support their youth and teens in navigating the onlife world in a safer and more responsible way. #1 – The Role of Technology in Youth Radicalization So, what is online radicalization? Radicalization refers to the process where individuals adopt extreme ideological beliefs, often leading to harmful actions. Online spaces have become key recruitment grounds for extremist groups, who use digital tools to manipulate and influence young minds. How Does It Happen? Where Does It Happen? What Can Parents, Caregivers, Educators, and Counsellors Do? Resources: #2– The Manosphere: What Parents Need to Know So, what is the Manosphere? The “manosphere” refers to a collection of online communities that discuss masculinity, relationships, and men’s rights. While some discussions focus on legitimate issues, others promote misogynistic, problematic, and extremist ideologies that can be harmful, particularly to young boys. How Does It Affect Teen Boys and Girls? Where Does It Happen? What Can Parents, Caregivers, Educators and Counsellors Do? Resources The Connection Between the Manosphere and Radicalization These two concerns are often interconnected. Young boys introduced to problematic masculinity in the manosphere may later be exposed to extremist ideologies that exploit similar frustrations and grievances. Likewise, radical groups use the same platforms and tactics to recruit and manipulate young minds. Understanding and addressing youth online radicalization requires a proactive and informed approach from parents, caregivers, educators, and counsellors. As digital platforms continue to evolve, so do the tactics used to influence and manipulate young minds. By fostering open conversations, promoting digital literacy, and encouraging critical thinking, we can help youth navigate the online world safely and responsibly. Recognizing the connection between online radicalization and the manosphere is essential, as both exploit vulnerabilities in young people searching for identity and belonging. With the right tools and awareness, we can guide them toward healthier perspectives and protect them from harmful influences. Education, awareness, and open dialogue are our best defences. By staying engaged, informed, and supportive, we can empower the next generation to make responsible online choices and resist extremist influences. Together, we can create a safer onlife environment for all youth. Here’s a GREAT YouTube video from the Fifth Estate on this challenge Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Emotion, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech
Evidence Based Resources That Support A Balanced “Restricted” Approach, Rather Than A “Banning” Approach, To The Use of Cellphones & Laptops In Schools
***Update March 2025 *** The London School of Economics and Political Science released and evidence-based report called “Smartphone policies in schools – What does the evidence say?, that should be read by both parents and educators. (6) They also further released this statement on the issue (7) In this 2025 released study from Great Britain titled “School phone policies and their association with mental wellbeing, phone use, and social media use (SMART Schools): a cross-sectional observational study” (8) researchers found: “There is no evidence that restrictive school policies are associated with overall phone and social media use or better mental wellbeing in adolescents. The findings do not provide evidence to support the use of school policies that prohibit phone use during the school day in their current form, and indicate that these policies require further development.” Across Canada and the United States, a significant movement is gaining traction among parents, special interest groups, politicians, and even some educators to ban cellphones and other personal electronic devices in schools (1). Online campaigns are now emerging, providing parents with blueprints and toolkits on how to advocate for these bans within their school communities. (2)(3)(4) Many of these articles, blueprints, and toolkits, that we have read in full, offer a variety of resources supporting the position to ban phones and other electronic devices in schools. However, a notable gap exists – few, if any, of these resources include solid, evidence-based research that questions the effectiveness of such bans. Contrary to what some are saying, there is a large body of such research that most parents and caregivers are unaware of and that we will speak to in this blog article. Consequently, parents and caregivers are often only exposed to one side of the story, leading them to support these “banning” movements without a comprehensive understanding of the potential implications. A noteworthy example is the PEW research, which found that banning cell phones or restricting age-appropriate access to social media could be detrimental, particularly for youth targeted for abuse both online and offline. These young individuals often use social media to seek help and support (5) If the goal is to equip parents and caregivers with robust, evidence-based information to make informed decisions, then it is crucial to present them with all the best and current evidence available from both sides of the debate. Providing a balanced perspective allows for more thoughtful and informed decision-making regarding the presence of cellphones in schools. To support this goal, we have developed four key resources that offer an evidence-based counter narrative to that of just banning phones and personal electronic devices in schools: Phone Ban Research: This resource delves into the existing and very current research on the impact of cellphones in educational settings, presenting both the pros and cons. It aims to give parents a well-rounded understanding of how phones can affect learning, attention, and overall student well-being. Phone Policy Recommendations: Here, we offer guidelines and recommendations for creating effective phone policies for all levels of schools. These recommendations are based on evidence and best practices, ensuring that any policies put in place are thoughtful and conducive to a positive learning environment. In this article, “Tech, Social Media, & Teens: Addressing Five Concerns with Research-Based Insights,” we aim to continue addressing other popular parental concerns with evidence-based information and perspectives surrounding the use of cellphones and social media Beyond the Ban – Creating School Environments That Embrace Safe and Responsible Technology Use! Emotional, Psychological, Physical, and Social Effects of Technology and Social Media: This comprehensive resource examines the broader effects of technology and social media on children and adolescents. It highlights the emotional, psychological, physical, and social impacts, providing insights into how these factors play a role in the overall debate about phone bans in schools. As the movement to ban cellphones and personal electronic devices in schools heats up and gains momentum across Canada and the United States, it is crucial to recognize the one-sided nature of the current debate. Online campaigns and toolkits promoting these bans are often one-sided and lack robust, evidence-based research that questions the effectiveness of such measures. Many parents and caregivers are only exposed to one perspective, leading to uninformed support for these bans without a comprehensive understanding of their potential implications. To ensure that parents and caregivers are equipped with the information needed for thoughtful and informed decision-making, it is essential to present all the available evidence. By providing a balanced perspective, we can foster a more informed discussion about the presence of cellphones in schools. To support this goal, we have developed the above noted three key resources offering an evidence-based counter-narrative to the movement for banning phones in schools that should be considered in the decision-making process. By offering these resources, we aim to foster a more informed and balanced discussion among parents, caregivers, and schools enabling them to make decisions that are in the best interest of their children’s education and well-being. Here’s a great academic review of the research specific to this topic by Dr Pete Etchells who specializes in the effect of technology on youth and teens Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Feelings, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Technology vs No Technology! References: 1/ https://macdonaldlaurier.ca/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/20240624_Social-media-and-kids-Bennett_PAPER-v9-FINAL.pdf 2/ https://www.awayfortheday.org/pushbacks 3/ https://phonefreeschoolsmovement.org/administrator-toolkit/ 4/https://protectyoungeyes.com/phonefreeschools-how-to-talk-to-your-school-district-about-removing-smartphones/ 5/ https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2022/11/16/connection-creativity-and-drama-teen-life-on-social-media-in-2022/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email 6/ https://eprints.lse.ac.uk/125554/1/Smartphone_policies_in_schools_Rahali_et_al_2024_002_.pdf 7/ https://www.lse.ac.uk/media-and-communications/research/research-projects/eu-kids-online/bans 8/ https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lanepe/article/PIIS2666-7762(25)00003-1/fulltext
A Parent’s Guide to Social Media Algorithm Literacy
As parents and caregivers to overcome the “algorithms” we must create the “mechanisms” to have ongoing discussions with our kiddo’s about digital literacy, internet safety, and privacy As parents, have you ever wondered why your kids seem so captivated by social media platforms like TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, and YouTube? Behind the scenes of these social media platforms, algorithms are working relentlessly to shape our kid’s online experiences in ways we might not fully realize. These algorithms are specifically designed and working overtime to deliver personalized content, drawing teens deeper into endless videos and posts that align with their interests. The result? It becomes harder for them to step away from their devices. Plain and simple, these algorithms are designed to maximize engagement and hold your child’s attention. Why? – because the longer your kids stay online, the more personal information these platforms gather, use, and sell for their financial benefit. Social media algorithms are complex systems that determine the content our kids see on their feeds. They use personal data, user interactions, and online preferences to curate content that keeps youth engaged. Here’s a simplified breakdown of how they work: So, why can social media algorithms be dangerous for youth? As parents and caregivers, it’s crucial that we educate ourselves and our kids about social media algorithms and their potential impact. By doing so, we can help our kids develop healthy digital habits and make informed decisions about their technology use. By understanding how social media algorithms work, youth can: Many parents, caregivers, and youth don’t know that you can reset and game these social media algorithms to refresh their feed, delete concerning content, and explore new content. This is especially important when our kids fall down the deep dark holes of the internet, by accident or on purpose, where these algorithms can start to feed them less than desirable content. Empower your child to take control of their social media experience – by resetting the algorithms of popular social media apps, youth can refresh their feed and reduce potential risks. Follow this simple step-by-step guide to help accomplish this goal on these four popular social media platforms: Instagram Clear Search History Adjust Interests Refresh Explore Page By following these steps, your teen can reset their Instagram algorithm and see content that’s more relevant to their interests. Remember to encourage them to regularly review their settings and adjust their preferences to maintain a healthy online experience. TikTok Clear Cache Dislike Videos Unfollow Accounts Refresh Their Page Remember, resetting the TikTok algorithm takes time and patience. Encourage your teen to regularly review their settings and adjust their preferences to maintain a healthy online experience. YouTube As a parent, you can help your teen reset their YouTube recommendations to improve their viewing experience. Here’s a step-by-step guide: Clear Watch History Delete Search History Manage Subscriptions Snapchat Method 1: Hide Certain Channels Method 2: Remove Channels Already in your Feed Method 3: Report Inappropriate Content Reset Snapchat Discovery Feed Social media algorithms have a profound influence on our kids’ online experiences, shaping their interactions and gathering personal information. However, by educating ourselves and our children about how these algorithms work, we can start to take back control and promote healthy digital habits. By regularly resetting and refreshing their social media feeds, your kids can help minimize the endless loop of problematic content and explore new interests. As a parent or caregiver, you have the power to guide your kids through the onlife world and help them develop mindful technology use. By working together, we can ensure that social media platforms are a positive and enriching experience for our kids. Take the first step by incorporating the recommendations in this how-to- article, and help your kids reset their social media algorithms to create a healthier onlife environment. Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Emotions, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech
“Sextortion” Resource Library– FREE Education & Prevention Resources For, Parents, Caregivers, Teachers, & School Resource Officers
At The White Hatter, we’ve had the privilege of helping 323 teens and their families who put their trust in us to help them navigate the traumatic experience of being targeted by sextortion. Recognizing the critical need for guidance and support, we made the decision several years ago to offer parents, caregivers, educators, and school resource officers as much FREE information as possible on this topic. What sets our approach apart is the depth and breadth of the content we provide. We don’t just skim the surface—we take a comprehensive look at the who, what, where, when, how, and why of sextortion. Our goal is to ensure that those seeking information understand the full scope of the issue, from how perpetrators operate to the psychological, emotional, physical, and social impact on teen and pre-teen survivors. In addition to raising awareness, we focus on educational solutions that can help prevent sextortion from happening in the first place. We also provide clear, actionable steps on how to respond if a teen becomes a target, offering guidance on both immediate interventions and long-term support. Our resources are designed to equip families, schools, and community members with the knowledge and tools they need to educate, protect, and help teens recover if they are victimized. By making this information readily accessible, we aim to empower those affected by sextortion and create a safer digital environment for all young people. Knowledge and the understanding and application of that knowledge is power – information to be useful must be shared! Please share this resource document with every parent, caregiver, teacher, principal, and school resource officer you know. Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Emotion, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech
Shopping Online and Understanding Cash Apps and Prepaid Cards for Youth: Risks and Responsibilities
In today’s onlife world, online shopping has become a convenient part of our daily lives. However, with this convenience comes vulnerability and the need for safe and secure payment methods. Here are four options that we recommend when making online purchases to reduce the risks specific to online fraud and scams. #1 – Credit Cards: Using a regular credit card for online purchases is common, but it’s important to take steps to protect your financial information and ensure a secure transaction. Here’s our recommendations on how to use a regular credit card when shopping online. #2 – Pre-loaded Credit Cards One effective way to enhance online purchase security is by using pre-loaded credit cards, also known as prepaid cards. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/ca/credit-cards/best/prepaid These cards offer a range of benefits that make them a safer and more convenient option for online purchases. Here’s why pre-loaded credit cards can be a better choice for your family’s online shopping needs. #3 – Apple Pay For those with an iPhone or iWatch, Apple Pay https://www.apple.com/ca/apple-pay is another great option for consideration when it comes to fraud protection and being scammed online: IMPORTANT NOTE – “Apple Pay” vs “Apple Cash” Apple Cash lacks buyer protection, making it an attractive target for criminals. When using Apple Cash, be aware that sending money to a scammer can result in permanent loss, as chargebacks and refunds are not possible with this payment option – this makes every transaction potentially risky. On the other hand, using “Apple Pay” does offer chargebacks and refunds, thus why we recommend “Apple Pay” over “Apple Cash” when making online purchases. We recommend that you DO NOT use Apple Cash when making purchases online even when requested to do so by the seller. #4 – PayPal Another option that stands out for its security features is PayPal. https://www.paypal.com/us/home Here’s why using PayPal can be a safer choice than using a credit card for online purchases on sites like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji. IMPORTANT NOTE – PayPal Friends and Family Option As the name suggests, PayPal Friends and Family was created to be used specifically as a way to transfer money between friends and family members. It allows close networks of people to send and receive funds for personal use, as opposed to using PayPal for business-related transactions. It’s crucial to be extremely careful when using PayPal Friends and Family. While the service is generally safe, some individuals may attempt to exploit others when it comes to online fraud. Sometimes, sellers may ask buyers to use the Friends and Family option to avoid fees and potentially bypass tax reporting requirements. Not only does this violate PayPal’s Terms and Conditions, but it could also be a tactic used by scammers. It’s important to note that PayPal Friends and Family transactions are not automatically protected by PayPal. If you use this option to make a purchase, you won’t have any recourse if something goes wrong or if you’re scammed. We do not recommend that when shopping on site like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji that you use the Friends and Family transaction option, even if requested by the seller to do so! What about other cash Apps like “Venmo” or “CashApp” as an option. These two apps, much like “Apple Cash” are meant to be more like a peer-to-peer payment and DO NOT offer a refund in the case of an online scam where PayPal, Apple Pay, and some credit cards do. It is because of this fact that we do not recommend these types of cash Apps as a source of payment when purchasing items online. In today’s onlife world, ensuring the security of online transactions is more crucial than ever, especially for families. By choosing the right payment methods, parents can protect their financial information, their purchase, and make online shopping a safer experience. Credit cards, when used with caution, offer robust fraud protection and monitoring features, making them a viable option for secure online purchases on well-known and credible online purchasing sites. Pre-loaded credit cards provide an extra layer of security by limiting the financial risk and managing spending more effectively. Apple Pay and PayPal, with their strong encryption and fraud protection features, offers a convenient and secure alternative, particularly for transactions where privacy and fraud protection are paramount on sites like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji. Understanding and utilizing these payment methods not only enhances your online shopping experience, but also sets a positive example for your family. By adopting these best practices, you can better safeguard your financial information, reduce the risk of fraud, and ensure that online shopping remains a more secure and enjoyable activity for everyone in your home. Knowledge and the understanding and application of that knowledge is power! How Are Cash Apps and Prepaid Cards Being Used By Some Youth? As a parent or caregiver, understanding the pros and cons of cash apps and prepaid cards for your kids is extremely important. While these financial tools offer convenience for everyday expenses like lunch money, transportation (bus), gas, or small purchases, they also present potential risks that need careful consideration. We have written this article to help you, the parent or caregiver, navigate these options to assist you in making an informed decision when it comes to cash apps and prepaid cards. As mentioned above, it is important to know that some youth and teens might need cash apps or prepaid cards for various reasons, such as the convenience of handling daily expenses or as a practical way to teach financial responsibility. They might need them for small jobs that they offer, like cutting lawns, where their customer can pay them electronically. These tools can offer a sense of independence and help youth and teens manage their finances under parental supervision. However, there are less desirable uses that parents should be aware of as well. 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Recommended Payment Methods for Safer Online Shopping Experiences: A Parent’s Guide To Reducing The Risks
In today’s onlife world, online shopping has become a convenient part of our daily lives. However, with this convenience comes vulnerability and the need for safe and secure payment methods. Here are four options that we recommend when making online purchases to reduce the risks specific to online fraud and scams. #1 – Credit Cards: Using a regular credit card for online purchases is common, but it’s important to take steps to protect your financial information and ensure a secure transaction. Here’s our recommendations on how to use a regular credit card when shopping online. #2 – Pre-loaded Credit Cards One effective way to enhance online purchase security is by using pre-loaded credit cards, also known as prepaid cards. (1) These cards offer a range of benefits that make them a safer and more convenient option for online purchases. Here’s why pre-loaded credit cards can be a better choice for your family’s online shopping needs. #3 – Apple Pay For those with an iPhone or iWatch, Apple Pay (2) is another great option for consideration when it comes to fraud protection and being scammed online: IMPORTANT NOTE – “Apple Pay” vs “Apple Cash” Apple Cash lacks buyer protection, making it an attractive target for criminals. When using Apple Cash, be aware that sending money to a scammer can result in permanent loss, as chargebacks and refunds are not possible with this payment option – this makes every transaction potentially risky. On the other hand, using “Apple Pay” does offer chargebacks and refunds, thus why we recommend “Apple Pay” over “Apple Cash” when making online purchases. We recommend that you DO NOT use Apple Cash when making purchases online even when requested to do so by the seller. #4 – PayPal Another option that stands out for its security features is PayPal. (3) Here’s why using PayPal can be a safer choice than using a credit card for online purchases on sites like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji. IMPORTANT NOTE – PayPal Friends and Family Option As the name suggests, PayPal Friends and Family was created to be used specifically as a way to transfer money between friends and family members. It allows close networks of people to send and receive funds for personal use, as opposed to using PayPal for business-related transactions. It’s crucial to be extremely careful when using PayPal Friends and Family. While the service is generally safe, some individuals may attempt to exploit others when it comes to online fraud. Sometimes, sellers may ask buyers to use the Friends and Family option to avoid fees and potentially bypass tax reporting requirements. Not only does this violate PayPal’s Terms and Conditions, but it could also be a tactic used by scammers. It’s important to note that PayPal Friends and Family transactions are not automatically protected by PayPal. If you use this option to make a purchase, you won’t have any recourse if something goes wrong or if you’re scammed. We do not recommend that when shopping on site like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji that you use the Friends and Family transaction option, even if requested by the seller to do so! What about other cash Apps like “Venmo” or “CashApp” as an option. These two apps, much like “Apple Cash” are meant to be more like a peer-to-peer payment and DO NOT offer a refund in the case of an online scam where PayPal, Apple Pay, and some credit cards do. It is because of this fact that we do not recommend these types of cash Apps as a source of payment when purchasing items online. In today’s onlife world, ensuring the security of online transactions is more crucial than ever, especially for families. By choosing the right payment methods, parents can protect their financial information, their purchase, and make online shopping a safer experience. Credit cards, when used with caution, offer robust fraud protection and monitoring features, making them a viable option for secure online purchases on well-known and credible online purchasing sites. Pre-loaded credit cards provide an extra layer of security by limiting the financial risk and managing spending more effectively. Apple Pay and PayPal, with their strong encryption and fraud protection features, offers a convenient and secure alternative, particularly for transactions where privacy and fraud protection are paramount on sites like Facebook Market Place, eBay, or Kijiji. Understanding and utilizing these payment methods not only enhances your online shopping experience, but also sets a positive example for your family. By adopting these best practices, you can better safeguard your financial information, reduce the risk of fraud, and ensure that online shopping remains a more secure and enjoyable activity for everyone in your home. Knowledge and the understanding and application of that knowledge is power! Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Feelings, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech References: 1/ https://www.forbes.com/advisor/ca/credit-cards/best/prepaid/ 2/ https://www.apple.com/ca/apple-pay/ 3/ https://www.paypal.com/us/home
A Parent’s Guide To Minecraft
Minecraft is a wildly popular sandbox-adventure video game that has captivated over 168 million monthly players, including children of all ages. Available on nearly every modern console, smartphone, tablet, and computer, the game’s cost varies depending on the platform your child uses. The term “sandbox” refers to the game’s open-ended nature, where there are no set goals, allowing players to explore, create, and build freely. Minecraft encourages kids to think creatively, engage with concepts like geometry, geology, and engineering, and immerse themselves in worlds made of imaginative block structures. The game’s distinctive blocky design, with characters sporting square heads and landscapes resembling Lego creations, appeals to a younger audience. In all versions of Minecraft, players can purchase “Minecoins” (the game’s in-game currency) to purchase add-ons and skins in the Minecraft Marketplace. (1) However, these purchases are entirely optional, and the game is fully playable without any additional purchases. It’s important to note that Minecoins are not available on all platforms, so they may not be relevant for every household. For many parents, understanding the intricacies of Minecraft can be challenging, especially when trying to ensure a safe gaming environment. This guide aims to help parents and caregivers navigate the game and determine whether it’s suitable for their children. The adventure in Minecraft begins with players creating and naming their world. From there, they explore, gather resources, and build structures. For example, players might collect wood from a tree, craft it into sticks, and then combine those sticks with more wood to make a pickaxe, which can be used to mine stone for building a house. The game’s narrative is entirely player-driven, and Minecraft can be enjoyed solo or in multiplayer mode. Minecraft’s Game Modes Minecraft offers three main modes of play—Adventure, Creative, and Survival—each with four difficulty levels: Peaceful, Easy, Normal, and Hard. Adventure Mode Adventure Mode allows players to explore downloadable game maps created by others. It is similar to Survival Mode but with the added thrill of navigating unique environments crafted by the Minecraft community. Your child will encounter the same survival challenges but within these custom-designed maps. Survival Mode In Survival Mode, players must battle hostile creatures, build shelters, and manage their character’s health and hunger. This mode is often where new players begin their Minecraft journey, as it requires them to navigate and survive in a dynamic and often challenging world. Creative Mode Ideal for beginners and younger players, Creative Mode grants unlimited access to resources and allows for endless building without the risk of dying or facing hostile mobs. This mode focuses on exploration and creativity, offering features such as: Educational Benefits of Minecraft Minecraft can also have educational value. The open-ended nature of the game promotes critical thinking, problem-solving, and systems thinking. The focus on building reinforces geometry concepts, enhances logic skills, and fosters creativity and collaboration. However, the educational benefits are often enhanced by guided learning. Playing together and asking questions like “Why did you build that?” or “How did you make that?” can deepen your child’s understanding and enjoyment. Additional benefits include: Is Minecraft Safe? Minecraft can be played safely, especially in single-player Creative mode on the Peaceful setting, where there’s no interaction with others and no conflict. However, when children transition to multiplayer mode, certain risks can arise, including: To mitigate these risks, parents can enable parental controls to filter out unsuitable content, prevent in-app purchases, and limit communication with others. Additionally, encourage your children to report any incidents of cyberbullying and teach them strategies for coping with and responding to such situations. (2) For added safety, consider having your child play on a “realm,” an invitation-only personal server for up to 10 players created by someone they know or by themselves. Alternatively, you can create your own server to monitor who plays with your child or find an established server with good moderators, such as vetted Minecraft servers designed specifically for kids. (3) Safety Features in Minecraft Minecraft offers several safety features to help protect children: As your child navigates the world of Minecraft, there are several ways you can enhance their experience and ensure it remains both enjoyable and educational: Minecraft’s appeal lies in its limitless possibilities, where the only boundaries are the player’s imagination. While the game offers numerous educational and developmental benefits, it’s crucial for parents to stay informed about some of the safety concerns and involved in their child’s gaming experience. By understanding Minecraft’s various modes, utilizing the available safety features, and encouraging a balanced approach to gameplay, you can help your child make the most of their time in this captivating virtual world. There’s no experience like a shared adventure with your child—Minecraft, with its boundless creativity and endless possibilities, offers many opportunities for such adventures. Whether your child is building towering castles, exploring underground caverns, or collaborating with friends on a massive project, Minecraft has the potential to be a powerful tool for learning, creativity, and fun. With the right guidance, you can ensure that Minecraft remains a positive and enriching experience for your child, helping them develop valuable skills that extend beyond the game itself. With the right approach, Minecraft can be a valuable tool for both learning and fun. Here’s a great YouTube Video that highlights much of what we have spoken about in this guide: NOTE – for those parents and caregivers that want to dive deeper into both the positives and negatives surrounding online gaming, make sure you check out our chapter in our FREE web book for parents that we dedicate to this very topic (8) Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Feelings, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech References: 1/ https://www.minecraft.net/en-us/marketplace 2/ https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/360045816952-Minecraft-Bedrock-Edition-Parental-Controls-for-All-Platforms 3/ https://www.pcmag.com/how-to/so-you-want-to-build-a-minecraft-server-heres-how-to-create-one-in-a-few 4/ https://www.internetmatters.org/parental-controls/gaming-consoles/minecraft/ 5/ https://www.minecraft.net/en-us/article/moderating-minecraft#:~:text=Minecraft%20moderators%20may%20ban%20players,player%20games%20is%20not%20moderated. 6/ https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/7317376541197-Minecraft-Java-Edition-Player-Reporting-FAQ 7/ https://www.minecraft.net/pl-pl/article/minecraft-multiplayer-server-safety 8/ https://thewhitehatter.ca/online-gaming/
A Parent’s Guide to Steam
Steam, developed by Valve Corporation, is one of the most popular digital platforms for purchasing, downloading, and playing video games on PCs and mobile devices. (1) With over 132 million active users each month, it has become a central hub for gaming enthusiasts worldwide. It also offers social networking services where gamers can connect with each other, which means your child could interact with people who may not have their best interests in mind. Steam also allows users to live stream their gameplay and make in-game purchases through the Steam Wallet. Funds can be added to this wallet using PayPal, credit cards, or Steam Wallet codes, which are available both in physical stores and online. Think of Steam as an App Store, but specifically for video games on computers and mobile devices. With a vast library of over 100,000 games and a thriving community, Steam is a favorite among gamers. If your child enjoys gaming, they’ve likely heard of Steam or may already be using it. Is Steam Safe? As a parent or caregiver, you might be wondering whether Steam is safe for kids. This guide will help you understand Steam’s features, potential risks, and how you can use parental controls to protect your child while exploring the gaming world together. Steam has several security measures in place to protect its users, including two-factor authentication, encryption protocols, and account verification. The platform also offers a reporting system that allows users to flag inappropriate behavior, such as bullying or harassment. (2) These features make Steam a relatively safe platform for purchasing and playing games. However, like any online platform, it’s important to be aware of the potential risks, especially for younger users. Age-Appropriate Content and Ratings One of the main concerns for parents and caregivers is the variety of content available on Steam. While the platform itself does not have age restrictions for account creation, the games available have age ratings assigned by developers and rating agencies. These ratings range from 13+ for mild content to 18+ for games with graphic violence, nudity, or adult themes. As a parent or caregiver, it’s crucial to check the ratings and content of games before allowing your child to access them. (3)(4) Many popular games on Steam feature intense violence, sexual content, or other material that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Potential Risks for Kids on Steam While Steam is a well-established platform, there are several risks associated with its use by youth that parents and caregivers should be aware of: How to Make Steam Safer for Your Child To ensure a safer experience for your child on Steam, you can take advantage of the platform’s parental controls and other protective measures: Steam can be a safe and engaging platform for your child, but it requires active involvement from parents. By setting up appropriate restrictions, monitoring your child’s activities, and educating them about digital literacy and online safety, you can help them enjoy the positive aspects of gaming while minimizing potential risks (7) – something that we speak to in our FREE web book for parents where we dedicate a whole chapter to online gaming (8) While Steam offers a vast and engaging world of gaming, it also comes with potential risks, especially for younger users. Ultimately, the decision to allow your child to use Steam should be based on your judgment and your child’s maturity level – remember, the right tech at the right time. With the right precautions in place, such as utilizing Steam’s parental controls, monitoring gaming habits, and having open and engaged conversations about online safety, Steam can be a fun and better-controlled environment for your child’s gaming adventures. However, free-range access, especially for preteens and younger teens, is not something we would recommend. As with everything we do in today’s onlife world, your active involvement and guidance are crucial in helping your child navigate the digital world in a safer and more responsible way. Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Facts Not Fear, Facts Not Feelings, Enlighten Not Frighten, Know Tech Not No Tech References: 1/ https://store.steampowered.com 2/ https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/4DE7-17AA-0E8B-C1AD 3/ https://www.esrb.org 4/ https://www.commonsensemedia.org/reviews/age/16/category/game 5/ https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/6B1A-66BE-E911-3D98 6/ https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/06B0-26E6-2CF8-254C 7/ https://www.internetmatters.org/parental-controls/gaming-consoles/steam/ 8/ https://thewhitehatter.ca/online-gaming/
How To Request The Removal Of Non-Consensual Posted Intimate Images/Video From Popular Social Networks
CAVEAT: This “How-To-Guide” can change as social media vendors update their reporting protocols. The below noted procedures were current at the time of publishing this guide in July 2024. This “How-To-Guide” is designed to provide teens, and even adults, with information on how they can connect with a social network, where their intimate image/video (nude) was non-consensually posted, to initiate an official takedown request. If the intimate image/video is of a youth under the age of 18yrs, often it is easier to accomplish a takedown request because of child pornography laws in most (not all) countries. If the intimate image is of an adult over the age of 18yrs, sometimes it can be more challenging to have it removed depending upon the social media platform, their terms of service (TOS), and where it is located in the online world. In this guide we will look at requesting a takedown from – Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, YouTube, Discord, Twitch, Facebook, X (formerly known as Twitter), Tumblr, Reddit, Skype, LinkedIn, Pinterest, WhatsApp, and Google Images. At the end of this guide, we also provide a 10 step emergency protocol to implement immediately if your picture or video is threatened to be used in a sextortion! No matter what social media platform you will be connecting with to request a takedown, it is important that you share these six essential elements with the social media vendor if possible: Important Note: If you are reporting the non-consensual distribution of an intimate image/video to the police (which we highly encourage), we recommend that before you start connecting with a social media platform to have it taken down, ensure that the police give you the go ahead to do so first. In some cases, and depending upon the police agency, law enforcement may need to gather required evidence before a takedown action is initiated. INSTAGRAM: APP Reporting: Instagram Direct Messages Reporting: SNAPCHAT: App Reporting TIKTOK App Reporting YOUTUBE App Reporting DISCORD App Reporting: TWITCH App Reporting: FACEBOOK App Reporting: Facebook Messenger: Other Social Media Site: GOOGLE If the intimate picture/video that is being shared is being hosted on a google product (this would include Google Hangouts, Gmail, and YouTube as Google owns YouTube) click on this link, fill in required info, and then hit “Submit” https://support.google.com/families/contact/report_child_grooming Google Images: https://search.google.com/search-console/remove-outdated-content Google Alerts: MANAGING SEXTORTION Is Your Child Trapped in an Online Sextortion Situation? Our 10 Step Emergency Protocol To Implement Immediately: Over the past 2 years, five teenagers in Canada have tragically ended their lives due to being the target of a sextortion. As of July, 2024, we’ve now provided assistance to 321 teenagers, and their families, who faced similar threats. It’s crucial to note that the fear of their pictures being exposed can cause immense emotional, psychological, and social distress among teens that can lead to suicidal ideations. According to Dr Scott Hadland, chief of adolescent medicine at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, “teen brains are still developing. When something catastrophic happens, like a personal picture is released to people online, it’s hard for the teen to look past that moment and understand that in the big scheme of things they’ll be able to get through this” It’s no wonder that some teens will have suicidal ideations that they will sometimes act on. It’s imperative to alleviate stress in our children as soon as possible, as this can help reduce suicidal ideations. That’s why we’ve been sharing this 10-step emergency protocol, which we have developed over the past couple of years, with teens and parents that we have found effectively reduces stress, while also providing hope to teenagers that things are going to be ok. #1 Stop All Communications – Don’t Engage: Immediately STOP all communication with this person (Capper). Often, teens believe that they can negotiate their way out of the situation or lower the price of the ransom. The reality – the longer you try to negotiate your way out of the situation, the worse it will get. #2 Don’t Pay Any Ransom (money, gift cards, more pictures or video): Do not pay any ransom that this person may be asking for including money, gift cards, pictures or more video (PayPal, Venmo, money order, e-transfer, bitcoin, Apple gift cards). If you pay, you will be labeled a “whale” and they WILL come back for more. According to cybertips.ca report https://bit.ly/3GEor26 in 93% of cases where a ransom is paid, the capper comes back to ask for more money. This is something that we have seen with several teens who we have helped who did pay a ransom. If money was paid, connect with your bank or credit card vendor to see if it can be canceled. #3 Screen Capture All Communications: Screen capture all communications as evidence if possible. If you can’t screen capture, think about placing your device on airplane mode so that any pictures or text-based evidence cannot be deleted remotely by the capper. #4 Deactivate But Don’t Delete: Deactivate and don’t delete your account, and do not block or delete this person until after you speak with the police, and they let you know to go ahead and do so. There are times that police may want to conduct an account takeover (pretending to be you) in an attempt to locate the capper. If you delete your account, this can’t happen. Also, do not delete any nude that you sent, often a first instinct for many youth – you will read why this important in step #5. How to deactivate accounts: Instagram – https://www.facebook.com/help/instagram/728869160569983/ TikTok – https://support.tiktok.com/en/account-and-privacy/deleting-an-account/deactivate-your-account Snapchat – The only way to deactivate Snapchat is to delete it. After you delete your Snapchat, the platform gives you 30 days to change your mind before deleting your account permanently. So, to temporarily deactivate your Snapchat, you could cancel the deletion process before the 30-day period ends #5: Notify The Police: Given that this is a crime (known as extortion) you should report it to the police first. If it is someone who you know personally, often police can assist to get the intimate picture or
My Instagram Account Has Been Hacked – How To Regain Control
We here at the White Hatter have seen a significant increase in calls and messages from followers who are looking for assistance because they have lost control of their Instagram account and someone else is now using it, often an organized crime group, to send messages to friends asking for things like money. One of the clearest indicators that your Instagram account has been compromised is if your login credentials no longer work. This typically means that a hacker has gained control of your account and has often changed the username, email, and phone number something they own. Once they take control, they will also active two-factor authentication to further make it difficult for you to regain control of your highjacked account. In some cases, hackers may try to avoid detection, but there are still warning signs that someone else is accessing your account: Steps to Secure a Hacked Instagram Account If you still have access to your account, you need to take swift action to remove the hacker: Full Account Takeover: If you can’t log into your account, you can still try to recover it: OPTION #1 Although this process can take time, it’s the best way to recover your account and prevent hackers from maintaining control. OPTION #2 Built-In Selfie Recovery Method (2): Step #1 Change Phone Settings on Your Camera: Need to make sure selfie photo is as small as possible – if you don’t you will likely get an “Error” message that says “video upload failed. Please try again later” Step #2 Clear Your Instagram Cache To facilitate sending your selfie ID to Instagram, the simplest method is to delete the app and then reinstall it from the cloud – this will clear the Instagram Cache. To ensure you are sending the selfie in the best way possible, use the highest data download available, whether it be your data plan or WiFi—whichever is fastest. Step #3 Send Video Selfie to Instagram In this step, make sure that you follow these steps on a device that you have previously logged into your Instagram account on. NOTE – Message from IG acknowledging your selfie confirmation can take minutes, hours, and sometimes even days. If you haven’t received a message after 24-48 hours, keep resubmitting video until you get a response Recovering a hacked Instagram account can be a complex and time-consuming process, but it is crucial to act quickly to regain control and secure your personal information. At the White Hatter, we’ve seen a significant rise in cases where individuals lose access to their accounts, often falling victim to organized crime groups that exploit their accounts for financial scams. Identifying signs of hacking, such as unexpected password reset emails, email change notifications, suspicious login attempts, and unauthorized messages or posts, is vital in responding promptly. By following the outlined steps in this article, including verifying your contact information, ending active sessions, resetting your password, enabling two-factor authentication, and removing unfamiliar linked accounts and third-party apps, you can enhance the security of your account thus reducing the risk of your Instagram account being hacked in the first place. If you’re unable to log in, requesting support from Instagram and verifying your identity through methods such as sending a selfie video can help you regain access. While the recovery process might be lengthy, it is essential to prevent hackers from maintaining control and further compromising your online security. NOTE – If you used your same username and/or password for other social media accounts (unfortunately not uncommon) make sure you also change those immediately! Digital Food For Thought The White Hatter Reference: 1/ https://help.instagram.com/566810106808145 2/ https://help.instagram.com/1053588012132894
