Every year, as the holiday season approaches, many families find joy in revisiting old Christmas photos and videos. Those grainy Polaroids, rolls of film developed at the local drugstore, and clunky camcorder footage bring back memories of laughter, togetherness, and cherished moments frozen in time. For many of us, flipping through those albums is a treasured tradition. Today’s youth, parents, and caregivers are creating those same memories with digital devices—but some argue it’s not the same. Let’s be clear – it absolutely is.
The tools may have changed, but the purpose remains the same – capturing meaningful moments. In the past, we used Polaroid cameras, bulky VHS recorders, or even disposable cameras to document our holiday gatherings. These tools were cutting-edge in their time, offering a way to preserve fleeting moments for future enjoyment. Fast-forward to today, and our smartphones, tablets, and digital cameras play that same role—albeit with greater convenience and quality.
The act of snapping a picture or recording a video hasn’t changed. It’s still about pausing to notice the moments that matter and ensuring they aren’t lost to time. The smiles, the laughter, the chaos of unwrapping presents—they all translate seamlessly from one era’s technology to the next.
The idea that today’s youth use technology in a way that’s inherently different from past generations stems from a misunderstanding of how the tools have evolved. The truth is, the instinct to capture and cherish memories is universal and timeless. While the format has shifted, the heart behind it has not.
The notion that technology gets in the way of being present, is often rooted in the fear that the act of documenting life overshadows experiencing it. While this concern is valid, it’s based on a false dichotomy – that you can either live in the moment or capture it, but not both. The truth lies in finding balance – using technology as a tool to enhance family experiences without letting it dominate them.
When used thoughtfully, technology doesn’t have to get in the way of being present this Christmas – it can serve as a bridge to deeper connection. It allows us to pause and savour the moments that matter most, while also preserving them for years to come. The key is intention – using technology to enhance the holiday experience rather than detract from it.
By setting boundaries, involving the whole family, and prioritizing connection, we can embrace the best of both worlds—enjoying the present moment while preserving it for the future. In doing so, we show our kids that technology, like any tool, is what we make of it.
Instead of creating a divide, let’s focus on teaching kids and teens how to use technology mindfully. Encourage them to put down their phones after snapping a picture, to savour the moment before and after they’ve documented it. Lead by example, showing them how to strike a balance between creating memories and living them.
When your kids or grandkids revisit the digital photos and videos of today, they’ll feel the same rush of nostalgia we do with our Polaroids and home movies. They’ll laugh at old hairstyles and marvel at how young everyone looked. They’ll see the same love, joy, and connection that make the holidays special, no matter the decade.
So this Christmas, embrace the role of technology in memory-making. (1) Take the pictures, film the laughter, and maybe even create a digital scrapbook or PowerPoint to share with loved ones. After all, when it comes to preserving the magic of the holidays, the tools may change, but the tradition never does.
Merry Christmas!
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